揭开社会潜规则：英汉双语解析最狠的那一面

社会上最狠的那些潜规则

※This society is not that you have done nothing wrong, you would not get bullied. When a person puts "weak" on his face, not only will he not win sympathy, but he will be bullied and wronged. Only when you become strong will the world be pleasant to you.

这个社会并不是你没做错，就不会欺负你。当一个人把“弱”挂在脸上，不但不会赢得同情，反而会遭受欺负，受到委屈。只有自己变得强大，世界才会对你和颜悦色。

※Fairness is relative, unfairness is absolute. When you find a person who keeps complaining about injustice, it means that he is not the party who benefits.

公平是相对的,不公平是绝对的。当你发现一个人一直在抱怨不公的时候,说明他不是获利的一方。

※Everyone tends to leave things to those who are capable, but the benefits are more likely to be left to those who are close to them.

每个人都倾向于把事情交给有能力的人去做，但好处却更愿意留给和自己亲近的人。

※When it's not allowed in principle, it's OK. When it is allowed in principle, it is not. When it is voluntary in principle, it is a must. When it is necessary in principle, it is voluntary.

原则上不允许的时候，就是可以。原则上可以的时候，就是不行。原则上自愿的时候，就是必须。原则上必须的时候，就是自愿。

※The more ruthless, cold-blooded, and desperate, going your own way, doing what you want, the more people will appreciate you and obey you. The more honest and soft-hearted and generous you are, the more people will bully you and take advantage of you.

你越是心狠手辣，冷血绝情，我行我素，不服就干，就越有人欣赏你，服你。你越是老实，心慈手软，越是厚道就越有人欺负你，利用你。

※To move the interests of the upper class is like taking their lives, and to change the ideas of the lower class is like digging their ancestral graves. Because the concept of the bottom is the source of the interests of the top.

※Poor people are poorly generous, rich people are rich in calculating! The poor are reluctantly generous, but the rich are generously calculating fair and square.